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I'm a goal oriented person. I love setting goals, making lists, and then kicking those goals in the butt. Obvious starting/ending dates (birthdays, anniversaries, New Year's, etc.) get my goal setting, list making self all aflutter.
So, as Ken's Christmas vacation drew to a close, and my beloved and I surveyed the wreckage of our household, we knew it was time to set some organizational goals.
Two of the things that tipped us off? The boys hadn't changed out of pajamas the entire vacation, and one day the Wii log showed that the kids had been playing video games for six hours.
And now, a tender four days into the New Year, I'll show you what we're doing to jam chaos back into manageable sized chunks.
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The first thing we did was realize that the kids needed not only to have a schedule, but they needed to see it. The brick wall in the kitchen is centrally located, so that's where the master schedule went. Later, Ken will get a sheet of plywood, I'll cover it with fabric, Ken'll attach it to the brick wall, and we won't have to use duct tape and wall putty like we're doing now.
Here's what we've currently got:
There's a chore chart (more on that in a following "quick" take- ha!), a daily schedule, a menu plan for the week, and a monthly calendar for Ken and I to schedule ourselves. Eventually I'll get plastic sheet protectors and Lotus and Joaquin's spelling words will go in them, for ease of practice, and Gabriel will have a list of sight words we can go over while he does the dishes.
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The rotating daily schedule is Lotus' favorite. She says she likes seeing what's expected of her each day, and when it should be done.
I took all the things we're likely to have to do on a daily/weekly/monthly basis, made a card for it, put velcro on the back of each card, and hung a ribbon on the wall. At the end of the day, before I go to bed, I put the kids' general schedule up on the ribbon (specific school schedules are beyond the scope of this particular post- i.e. they're not up and running yet).
(this picture is a sample of some of the things that show up on the kids' general schedule. All the slips have velcro on the back so I can attach them to the ribbon)
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Each child (except lazy Veronica) has chore cards. They cover their daily chores (feed, water, and put up chickens, unload breakfast dishes, clear lunch dishes, etc.), bath schedule (I can't get all six of them cleaned on the same day. I'm not sure if it's a mental block or a water supply problem, but I have to stagger them if I want to maintain a bare bones level of personal hygiene), and weekly jobs.
As they do each chore, the kids move the card from the "to do" slot to the "done" slot. If they want to go play outside or do something fun, I can easily look to see if their chores are done first.
Gabriel likes this part best. He gets the biggest Gabriel grin on his face as he moves a card from "to do" to "done".
However, the second day this schedule was in effect, he came downstairs, saw his "to do" list had refilled, and burst into angry screaming. The concept of "daily schedule" wasn't made clear enough, I guess.
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Meal planning. This is the one household organizational activity that I think is most important. In fact, it's when I let it slide that I'm scared back into good behavior, because I quickly start burning through the grocery budget on prepackaged foods, pizza delivery, and Brugger's bagels runs.
If there were one thing I'd advise households to implement, it would be a meal plan. It's one less thing you have to think about, you save money, and you are better able to eat healthy.
Like this meal, pictured below. A healthy crock pot dish of black beans and rice, using economical dry black beans, soaked for 12 hours before entering the crock pot at the same time as the rice.
Result? After eight hours in the crock pot, I had a lovely dish of rice glue, raw black beans, and a frantic scramble to rearrange the menu plan so I wasn't tempted to call our pizza guy, who knows us by name now.
Don't be like me, y'all. Check cook times before combining crock pot ingredients.
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At one point during his vacation, Ken surveyed his progeny and noted, "I don't think they boys have changed out of pajamas since the day before Christmas Eve."
He was right.
Even more shameful was the fact that the two children who HAD managed to not slum around in their pajamas were wearing the same outfit that they'd been wearing for the last four days.
Gross.
Ken suggested that maybe it would be helpful for the kids' future work ethic to lay out a clean outfit every day before bed. I blanched at the idea, since it smacked of conventional school mornings, which represent to me a level of organization and productivity that I cannot yet grasp.
Ignoring my feeble protests, Ken put hooks at the end of each boys' bed, and I was tasked with the assignment of overseeing The Laying Out of Tomorrow's Clothes.
Results are mixed. On the one hand, everyone's wearing clean clothes every day, and when I am ready to venture outside the house for errands, I don't have a two hour clothing expedition. On the other hand, it means that when Gabriel picks his "rich man shirt" as Tomorrow's Outfit, it stays on all day. Even during errands.
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Lastly, after seeing the Wii log for one day of vacation, which informed us that our children had managed to play video games for six hours without us realizing it, I knew it was time to put us on a strict screen schedule.
As I'm prone to do, I may have overcorrected in this area, and we went from letting the kids park themselves in front of TVs, computers, or iPhone games whenever they wanted to no screens whatsoever unless it was an approved part of the curriculum.
I'm going nuts. This change is the one I hate the most, since any down time I got during the day came courtesy the electronic babysitter. Now I've fired her, I'm running at full speed from the moment my feet hit the floor in the morning (which, thanks to my no screens rule, means when the kids wake up), until Ken gets home at night.
I have no illusions about this part of Operation Organized Donaldsons being cut. Soon.
I've made a couple of modifications to homeschool, but I'm going to wait until next week to show them, since they're not fully operational yet. Read: we're slooooowly easing our way back into a full school day.
And that, my friends, marks the longest, most pointless Quick Takes in the history of the Internet.

WOW! My organizational skills that I thought were intense look sub par right now. Great job!
ReplyDeleteLove the honesty on what will be axed in the OOD.
I'm guessing that crock was a lot of fun to clean?
Oh my gosh, you are putting me to shame!
ReplyDeleteSimilarities: We pick out clothes the night before (for the kids, but really I should do it for myself too) which is super easy sice 3 wear uniforms and Maggie picks her own and the baby doesn't care. We do baths/showers every other night in the cold weather and every night in the warm weather because they just get so gross. But we do super fast ones!
Screen time is limited to half an hour a day during the week and on the weekend they get to play Wii during baby's nap and watch a movie at night. Now, my kids are gone most of the day during the week which makes a half hour limit very easy to maintain...lots of nights we skip it all together because we run out of time before bed.
We don't do, but should implement: meal planning, chore charts, or a centralized calendar. We basically just yell at the kids to clean whenever things get messy, and every night before their tv time they have to clean the toy room. They put away laundry on weekends when I actually get around to folding and sorting it. We need to be more disciplined in these areas, and if you say a meal plan is the way to start then I'm all over that!
Not pointless! Great! I must do it soon. I've decided that when we start back on Monday, we're going to be like those hoity-toity rich schools and have a Winter Session, wherein I ease us back slowly and also encourage creativity whilst I scramble to adjust our daily routine.
ReplyDeleteOne note about screen time: we gave up weekday TV a couple years back. The first few weeks were Absolute Hell. But after that, the kids got much much better at entertaining themselves and I got better at taking real rest time rather than snagging some stolen moments here and there. It's hard to explain, but I'd encourage you to stick with it for a few weeks before giving up. Most Sundays I am eager for Monday to start because I can't wait to banish the evil TV monster.
Can't wait to see your next HS post!
Meeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaal plaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiing :( :( :( :( .
ReplyDeleteJust when I thought I was the most productive organizational genius on earth, you have to go and remind me that I have never written a meal plan in my LIFE. Ever! Oh my gosh. I am so lame. I have, like 7 recipes that I know and I just keep the ingredients for those 7 recipes in the house at all times and then I stare at the pantry at 5:30, pick whichever one seems least painful to me, and make it. Oh, it is boring. It is lame. It fuels the children's need to ask me a thousand times "what's for dinner????" as if it's going to be something amazing or whatever. Hah! Anyway. I guess I should google "how to meal plan" or similar... Ugh. Thanks a lot, woman.
You guys! When I used Leila Lawler's meal planning posts, it was life-changing! You create one enormous master list of dinners (must include sides!) and you never have to come up with ideas again! And, her way of going about it is just plain FUN! Go! Try it! Easy-peasy!
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I love reading how other people plan and organize their homes. Thanks for sharing. The crockpot is hilarious! I menu plan with little sticky tabs on my calendar so that I can move them around within the week as needed.
ReplyDeleteI love this - If ever you feel so inclined, or maybe you've already done this, do you have advice on kids' chores or age-appropriate chores? Mine are 4 and 6 and they want to help, but I don't even know what to tell them to do. So they just make messes and I just mutter under my breath like a crazy person about "picking up after yourselves" and "not the maid around here" and the like. It isn't pretty.
ReplyDeleteActually, Assortedjoys, I've never written a post about that, but what a great idea!
DeleteUntil I write it, though, have you considered having the 4 and 6 year old load and unload the dishwasher? Around here, you start unloading the dishwasher on your 5th birthday (Happy birthday, Donaldson child!). The sibling whose unloading job you took gets moved up to loading.
Six may be too young for loading, but together they could probably unload. It would take about a week of modeling on your part, but at the end, you've got one less chore to do!
you are amazing. i am reeling over the hooks on the bed idea - why WHY doesn't my tiny brain think of things like this?????? I'm putting my husband on it tonight. And even despite the photo, now I want rice and beans for dinner. Does that mean I am really just a fatty-fatty 2x4? Probably...
ReplyDeleteOOD! Brilliant! :D Though I think you might have been speaking Ood in your post. What does this word "organizing" mean? And "meal planning?" Does that refer to the magical creating of edibles? If so I'm out. That crunchy beans and rice glue casserole puts my pathetic cooking attempts to shame!
ReplyDeleteFor some reason my husband gets bent out of shape when our kids wear the same clothes days in a row too. What's with that? It's environmentally friendly to save shower and laundry water! ;)
OOD...love. You most certaily are a woman after my own OCD-perfectionist-crazy person heart. What great strides you've made! I find that I do a whole revamp several times a year. It's either because what was working no longer works or what we're curently doing is driving me bananas.
ReplyDeleteOr, I suddenly realized our children weren't obeying their Wii/electronic timers and I told daddy and he made new meany-pants daddy rules. Most of the time what we find most difficult is that as the parent who is here all day, I get to/have to be enforcer. That's where we find what works and what realistically doesn't and just makes my day a nightmare. Shift and reorganize again and retry.
I'm a geek for the routine/organizing/visible schedule stuff, so I am glad you shared. Thanks. Gets me to thinking about some changes. My guess is that my children will not thank you when I told them I got the ideas from The Clan. lol.
ps...we instituted a 1 1/2 hrs electronic time per day rule. The kids have a stack of 6 tickets (15 mins each) they start with each day. When they are gone, they are gone. Now, some days this works well and few tickets are used. Other days I have to be a Wii Nazi and pry my son away from the Wii. Again, work in progress.
Oh, meal planning is my friend. I need to get much better at it since I'm hit or miss with doing it. I'm not really organized in this yet, but know that the 'what's for supper?' dilemma is easier to handle when I have a list of recipes. Pinterest is my new buddy for this and I've found some really good recipes on there. I also find that it is easier on the budget when I meal plan a couple weeks at a time, do a grocery list, do the shopping and I'm set.
DeleteHoly organization batman! I'm amazed... When I can pick my jaw off the ground, maybe I'll try to take some of your tips...
ReplyDeleteI think my favorite part is the ribbon with the day's schedule - and I especially like that there's not times with them.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I'm just really lazy and I'd much rather sit around, watching movies and snacking on popcorn. I know our days run better when I have a flow for them but it's hard for me to be motivated. So I'm wondering: Cari, do you also struggle with that and if so, how did you overcome it?
I want to have forgotten I have read this, just so I can come back and read the words "rich man shirt" over and over. Brilliant! Cheers to your changes!
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